Sometimes you have to lose something to really understand just how valuable it is. It’s so easy to take things for granted, so easy to complain and grow dissatisfied with what we have. And then, when it’s taken away, we realize just how much we actually had to be thankful for.
Twice recently I’ve had something that was very important to me taken away. One of those things was later restored but not before I learned through heartache and tears to be thankful for what I had in the first place. The other thing has not been restored and I don’t know if it ever will be. What I do know is that losing these things taught me more than having them ever could.
Heartache is a terrible and brilliant teacher. I have learned much from the good things in my life, much more from the hard things. Perhaps it’s the desire to never go through such things again that moves us and makes us grow and change amid trouble.
In those moments when the things I loved and wanted were lost (and I’m not talking about material things, by the way) all I wanted was for life to go back to the way it was before that moment. I saw how good I had it, how much I had to be thankful for, and would have given anything to put it all back together as it was.
But even though I can’t change the way things are, I can learn and grow from the trouble—and really, it would be a waste not to.
This loss has humbled me; it has made me more thankful for what I had and what I still have. I hope these lessons stick. I hope I don’t have to learn the same hard lesson the same hard way.
I have much to be thankful for, a big beautiful life to live. God, help me never to forget.
“Experience: that most brutal of teachers. But you learn, my God do you
learn.” C.S. Lewis
9 thoughts on “Lost & Found”
So very true!
we always realize how important things are when we don’t have them any more. Love this post. Thanks for the words that inspire. DAF
Yes, loss is a pretty good teacher. Hopefully I start learning a little but faster…
Beautifully said, although I’m sorry to hear you’ve suffered a great loss. May you find encouragement enough to see you through.
I’m sure all will be well in the end and the lesson is one I needed to learn along the way. Thank you for your kind comment :]
PS my apologies for spelling your name incorrectly, Kari 🙂
No problem ;]
Thank you Carrie…for putting your emotional journey into words, and so beautifully.
Wow…very powerful reminder to treasure the important “stuff” in our loves and appreciate, truly appreciate our blessings.