This question, “have you tried?” keeps pulsing through my mind. The other day I was admiring someone’s work and the impressive place they’re at in life. I wondered how they got where they are and how so much has been accomplished with all the other daily obstacles of work and caring for a young family. How does one person achieve so much while another struggles to do so little in comparison?
That’s when my nagging question came to mind: Have you tried?
The truth is I don’t always try very hard. I spend more time looking at pretty pictures and imagining the life I want than I do actually building that life into a reality. It’s like the problem everyone complains about with Pinterest where you spend hours looking through and pinning pretty pictures of elaborate meals and projects you will probably never actually taste or finish. This is not to say Pinterest or dreaming is bad. But dreams can become weights around our neck if we never do the work to see any of them achieved.
So I have to ask myself honestly, have I tried? Am I just dreaming or am I doing the planning and work that goes into making my dreams a reality? Maybe instead of sitting around envying the lives of others, I should be busier working and building a good life of my own.
I believe in a lot of ways we live the lives we create. We can’t control everything of course, but there is a lot of power in our hands to plan and work and make something of ourselves and our surroundings.
So the question I should really be asking myself is not, how did that person do so much, but rather, what can I do?
Have I even tried?
3 thoughts on “Have You Tried?”
That is just where I am- constantly. Funny though after reading one of your previous post I was going to write to you to say…Have you tried yoga? This year I started a challenge and I have kept it up give or take the odd day or two. Keeping that movement and focus of breathing has helped me with the ups and downs of day to day life with two young boys and to focus more on the present rather than the day dreaming. The yoga challenge is working for me and I would highly recommend yogawithadriene which you can do from the comfort of your own home. I am still in the early stages of doing anything about everything else 🙂
This is so true . For me it’s not knowing how to start that’s stops me trying
So true! So often we would rather just dream and be envious of others instead of making a plan and following through!